This hurts my heart... Because I relate to so much of what you said (I even blogged about the same thing recently) , and I know how soul-crushing it can feel. When it seems like everyone else is recognized. When they all seem to get the accolades and opportunities and people gushing about their work. Honestly though, I'd bet they felt like this at some point.
You are seen. From one “domestic engineer” to another-- (we really must retire the phrase housewife--we need something more fearsome to take its place. Let’s brainstorm on this) --your feelings are valid. Just don’t let that mean voice in your head get to you too much, and if it does, tell it to get the hell out and bring you back a much deserved treat and glass of your favorite concoction.
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us. You are not alone in this.🩷
Sep 22, 2023·edited Sep 22, 2023Liked by Rebecca Jones-Howe
I guess I can sorta relate. I don't have anything published, but...eh. I guess writers feeling like shit, especially indie writers, isn't uncommon. I'm suffering from very, very bad MDD and this year is one of the worst.
Hugs, though. I hope we can all feel better...eventually.
Hugely relatable post. I'm so sorry your cat is no longer with you. And the comparisonitus is something I actively fight against every day. I'm glad you took a break and it feels like perhaps you need to come back using baby steps.
So sorry to hear about Bob 💔 & your mental health. I can relate. Take care of yourself & try to put whatever you can on the back-burner while you give yourself what you need. 💖
This hurts my heart... Because I relate to so much of what you said (I even blogged about the same thing recently) , and I know how soul-crushing it can feel. When it seems like everyone else is recognized. When they all seem to get the accolades and opportunities and people gushing about their work. Honestly though, I'd bet they felt like this at some point.
You are seen. From one “domestic engineer” to another-- (we really must retire the phrase housewife--we need something more fearsome to take its place. Let’s brainstorm on this) --your feelings are valid. Just don’t let that mean voice in your head get to you too much, and if it does, tell it to get the hell out and bring you back a much deserved treat and glass of your favorite concoction.
Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us. You are not alone in this.🩷
I guess I can sorta relate. I don't have anything published, but...eh. I guess writers feeling like shit, especially indie writers, isn't uncommon. I'm suffering from very, very bad MDD and this year is one of the worst.
Hugs, though. I hope we can all feel better...eventually.
Hugely relatable post. I'm so sorry your cat is no longer with you. And the comparisonitus is something I actively fight against every day. I'm glad you took a break and it feels like perhaps you need to come back using baby steps.
So sorry to hear about Bob 💔 & your mental health. I can relate. Take care of yourself & try to put whatever you can on the back-burner while you give yourself what you need. 💖